Welcome!

Thanks for stopping by to read about my little journey down the rabbit hole.

My name is Kayt Deans and the last 5 years of my life have been a bit 'challenging'.  This culminated at the end of 2011 with a breast cancer diagnosis!

Let's take a swift glance back in time...

After almost 21 years of a wondeful marriage to an honourable man, I discovered neither of those statements were true.  My wonderful marriage shattered at my feet and I joined the ranks of those women who really had no clue her husband was cheating on her.

It took some time but when my head cleared I decided to show my sons that just because people knock us to our knees, it's our decision to stay down there or get up and move forward.

I re-educated myself with the latest office technology and I got myself a full-time job; I had a five year plan which, with a considerable amount of luck, I managed to achieve in 2 years.

It turns out I had this strength inside me that I had never really noticed before, and I liked it a lot! 
Don't get me wrong, this time was fraught with a huge amount of stress and I had so many sleepless, tear filled nights.  This was a very, very scary time for me.
It took 5 years to get through the divorce & settlement and was eventually finalised in October 2011.  I could finally say that I was in charge of myself, my life and the wellbeing of the boys!  WooHoo!!

So here I am, on my own feet, a fully fledged adult paying my own mortgage on a house in my own name; managing to pay the bills and eat at the same time.  Wow!

G-d is an absolute Piss Taker!!!

Now, I am not a religious person but I do have a great faith in G-d and believe that there is a reason for everything that happens in my life. 
The Great Journey to a Better Understanding blah, blah, blah. 
I love G-d and know that I am loved in return.  This does not, in any way, cause me to drop my head in shame when I tell you that I know, beyond a shadow of doubt that...
G-d is an absolute Piss Taker!!!

Which is where my story really begins...